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Tell him straight up: "I need you here to protect and provide for us, to give us security in our lives, to help raise these children, to set an example for this boy, who needs to see what real men do, and for this girl, who needs to know what a real man is so she can find one of her own someday.
I need you to be the head of this family."Lay it out like this, and your requirements will trump his mother's every time.” ― Steve Harvey, “Newsflash: it's not the guy who determines whether you're a sports fisher or a keeper-it's you.
After all, it's universal knowledge that when mama is happy, everybody is happy.
And it is my sole mission in life to make sure Marjorie is happy.” ― Steve Harvey, “Providing for the ones he loves and care about, whether it's monetarily or with sweat equity, is part of a man's DNA, and if he loves and cares for you, this man will provide for you all these things with no limits.” ― Steve Harvey, “A man fishes for two reasons: he’s either sport fishing or fishing to eat, which means he’s either going to try to catch the biggest fish he can, take a picture of it, admire it with his buddies and toss it back to sea, or he’s going to take that fish on home, scale it, fillet it, toss it in some cornmeal, fry it up, and put it on his plate.
You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord's green earth-you're capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you're independent (which means, to him, that you're not going to be in his pockets)-but if he's not ready for a serious relationship, he going to treat you like sports fish.” ― Steve Harvey, “Nothing on this planet can compare with a woman’s love—it is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. If you are her man, she will walk on water and through a mountain for you, too, no matter how you’ve acted out, no matter what crazy thing you’ve done, no matter the time or demand.
That’s a woman’s love—it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance....
She knew she wanted a monogamous relationship-a partnership with a man who wanted to be a dedicated husband and father.
We certainly want these things from you; that's why we talked to you in the first place.
It tells him that what you have- your benefits- are special, and that you need time to get to know him and his ways to decide if he DESERVES them.
The man who is willing to put in the time and meet the requirments is the one you want to stick around, because tthat guy is making a conscious decision that he, too, has no interest in playing games and will do what it takes to not only stay on the job, but also get promoted and be the proud beneficiary of your benefits.
But it's you who decides if you're going to give us any of the things we want, and how, exactly, we're going to get them.
Where you stand in our eyes is dictated by YOUR control over the situation.