My ex is dating a felon
I mean, all of his sexual needs are completely met by you, right? And all of his emotional needs are met by you, so it can’t be that he enjoys the ego boost of feeling desired by a woman…My point in all this is that if you believe that you’re meeting all his needs, you will be blind to areas where the relationship needs to grow.Most aren’t even consciously aware of those feelings.But if you can see past your own hurts and desires, you’ll see men everywhere trying to fill emotional voids through their actions and achievements.
Especially when the insecure partner isn’t willing to walk away regardless of whether or not they get what they want.
And now, a little over a year into the relationship you’re disappointed that he’s still the same guy… People do this all the time, but it doesn’t make it right or sane.
The fact is, this whole pattern of people projecting a fantasy version of someone onto the actual person is ludicrous.
Rather than wanting him to change, the better path is to move towards understanding each other better.
Understanding each other is the basis of connection.