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For example, in an argument with my ex-wife, I would point out a struggle I was having with her behavior and she would instantly point out that I had no right to mention flaws in others when I had so many myself.She would then proceed to list all my flaws and shortcomings.Most people think of ENFPs as “flighty” and hard to pin down.They don’t believe ENFPs are capable of committing to much.
I encourage ENFPs to express themselves in order to work through these challenges. I want to be a filmmaker, musician, billionaire, graphic designer, New York Times bestselling author, world-class speaker, consultant, actor, radio host, podcaster, personality profiler, resort owner, pilot, computer programmer, blogger, Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback, voice over artist, TV writer, screenwriter, You Tube celebrity, professional mourner, mountain climber, river guide, neurologist, biologist, emcee, and the list keeps going…. Sometimes ENFPs don’t know a bad decision until after it has already been made.Since Effectiveness is concerned with getting things done, it can often show up when you have endless options and you don’t know which one to choose.You may get into action or commit to a project before knowing it’s right for you.An ENFP might say something like, “I know I’m not a bad person, but I look around and I seem to be the only one I know who is in touch with this heart darkness.Maybe I really am bad or wrong at the core of my identity.”The pressure of needing to have it all together in order to truly feel as if I’m not being hypocritical when I “champion” others, while simultaneously feeling as if I am always a giant, clumsy, unreliable, immature, and inconsistent hot mess can sometimes feel like too strong of a burden.