Dating someone with npd
If she’s not busy bathing toddlers, dropping kids at soccer, or changing her own transmission fluid, she’s supposed to be planning a three-course supper, scrubbing dirty underwear, learning a foreign language, or making her living room fit for HGTV. An athlete, a social butterfly, a horseback rider, fluent in Spanish, math wiz, funny, kindhearted, and well-loved. Look, I have no right to talk about things I don’t understand. But I do cry at “Steel Magnolias” so hard I have to pause it after Shelby’s funeral. And when I hear about my friend’s thirteen-year-old girl who believes herself to be—in her own words—“ugly, and fat,” it is an affront to my human-hood. They tell girls who they should be, what they should do, how they should think, what their den should look like, how their waistline should appear, what they should eat, and what they should feel. So here’s one more: This world owes you an apology.She must be a certain size, weight, width, she must have a gym membership, a midsection stronger than most outboard motors, tight underarms, young-looking hands, perfect teeth, slender neck, soft-spoken voice, no gray hairs, no eye wrinkles, and the amiable disposition of Princess Grace of Monaco. Not that it matters what I think, but I believe television and magazines are trying to ruin females. Miss Alabama has dreams of attending Auburn University, she wants to study zoology, she is pretty, has brown hair, blue eyes, flawless health. She can spit farther than any boy, and cook just as well as granny alive. There are even books on how to divorce a Borderline or Narcissistic Personality that give strategies to reduce the damage done to a person during the process.In a book entitled, "Splitting," one section looks at how a borderline can convince own lawyer that they are right and turn the lawyer against you--I believe it and have seen it happen.
affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days) 7. 8.inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights). transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.
That’s what I want to say to any woman reading this. The world is trying to squash you like an albino cockroach, and you deserve an apology. She thinks she’s too fat, and she’s disgusted with her own reflection. Who told females they had to be USDA-approved and ninety-eight percent lean?
Today’s modern female is expected to be a walking-talking industrialized domestic machine. Who in the H-E-Double-Cuss said beauty had anything to do with dress sizes? I don’t like what people are doing to other people. I don’t care for celebrities that People Magazine says I should care about.
I didn’t want to deal with her yelling and crying, so I just did as she asked.
The sad thing is, that person I de-friended was nice to me, even helpful.