Dating should i call him

’ ‘It’s too soon,’ ‘I don’t like labels,’ ‘I’m not ready to be in a serious relationship,’ blah blah blah.At the time, I truly, genuinely, wholeheartedly believed the things I was saying and, to some extent, they were true.Eventually, I softened and started to warm up to the possibility of being in a relationship. He was really cute, really sweet, had a good job, and seemed pretty much perfect for me.I liked him a lot at first, well a lot in relation to how much I was capable of liking anyone at that point which wasn’t really that much.

I mean yeah it was nice, but where is the fun and excitement in having someone at your mercy?When a guy won’t call you his girlfriend it doesn’t always mean he doesn’t like you or that he never will.Oftentimes, it may mean that he isn’t ready to commit in that way at that moment.My relationships at that point would go something like this: we would meet, there would be a spark, we’d hang out a few times, after a few weeks I would freak out and feel trapped and suffocated, I would then lose all interest in the relationship and would do whatever I could to sabotage it.I felt guilty but also kind of alarmed at my inability to feel anything.

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