Dating she means messed up

In fact, if you're like most guys than you're probably making one (or a few) of these common ‘texting' mistakes that will kill your chances with a girl.

Before you've had your first date with a girl, she won't feel much of a connection to you.

in her mind you're not worth the trouble of meeting up with. Remember, every text you send should make you seem like the FUN OPTION. If you're texting an attractive woman chances are you are NOT the only guy she is getting a text from today. But between other guys pursuing her, ex boyfriends, co-workers, classmates, and so on… So if you want to stand out, your texts need to display your unique style and personality. Because all of the positive emotions she felt when she was with you have dwindled.

She should be able to know its a text from you just by reading it (even if the name was blocked). Find a way to quickly spark an emotion and get her paying full attention to you. If you ask a woman to hang out, without first sparking an emotion.. And the thought of getting dressed up, and going to meet a guy she barely knows (and the potential you'll turn out to be a creep or just awkward) is not worth the effort. Which is why you MUST engage her on an emotional level first.

Lots of guys use the same jokes, same questions, and same texts over and over.

Ask her to send you a funny picture of something (or send her a funny picture of something).

To make sure you NEVER again waste texts on pointless chatter, ask yourself this golden question: How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date? When a woman gives you her number she is NOT signing a social contract to go out with you… she's probably not going to bother meeting up with you.

If your answer is simply “to get her to know her better,” erase the text. So when you send boring texts that don't display any personality or don't elicit any emotions in her…

Keep her guessing what your text will be and you'll keep her interested in you.

Moreover, keeping the “spark” of a relationship alive is very important when it comes to creating a great sex life.

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